My 2nd Princess - Elissa

I realise I hardly mention my 2nd princess on her own. She is now going into her 4 month. I find her fairer, but the eyes are not as attractive as her sister. She is more stubborn in a sense and she is very fierce when she cry.

I feel bad not spending enough time with her. I feel that most of her time are with my mum - her granny. I feel very upset when she refuse to latch on and she cry really loud when I was trying to feed her direct.

I feel that she use to latch on faster than her sister, but I stop letting her latch on sooner than her sister cos I return to work earlier and also I find it tougher to find time for her to latch on as there is another elder girl around (and latch on feeding usually take longer; and may not empty the milk duct - end up causing engorgement more often).

If I am not wrong Estella can latch on at least once a day till she turn 4 months.
While Elissa only latch on for at most 2.5 months