Price of birth

While enjoying the parenthood, I have to pay a high price for that..

Other than the pain that I suffer, I need to bear with lack of sleep, lack of personal time, slow down in career and personal life pace.

Sometime I feel this is very unfair for many young women like me. Guys do not feel the same pain and they do not need to lose out in so many things.

Haise, my hubby will never understand how I feel and he tots it's easy for me... We often quarrel cos he never plan and I kind of dislike his way of managing finance, we seem way apart in this area.

I appreciate him as a man who is optimistic and always carry a "happy-go-lucky" attitute (maybe that is why he can handle stress at work and life so well), but on certain thing I hope he can just let me manage. At times he become very shallow and mallow in a sense that he want to manage me like a wife will do to their hubby.