坏家婆加三姑六婆

Although I try to forget what had happened before, but they stupidly want to bring those memories back into me.

Today went to my parents-in-law's stationery shop, initally my mood was okay, but towards the end it change totally. I happen to walk into the shop while my hubby was in there for long, and realise that my mother-in-law and her friend was down there talking to my hubby about how he should give more money to his parents and be home more often. And from there her friend got more irritating (yet thought she was trying to salvage the situation) by saying “我不是在指山骂怀”, which is so obvious that whatever she said is cause my mother-in-law has complaint.

E.g. money must give more to parents cos they will give it back to you when they past on (bull shit cos my hubby parents are different from other parents interm of money.. My mother-in-law ever declare that she can serve her ties with her own mother not to mention son infront of both my hubby and me.. what do you think of a person who can said this??)

Contradicting to what the 'aunty' mention, my in-law's money will still be their money if not the elder son, so why is that 'aunty' friend saying that the parents money will be back to the respective son? on what basis? (Look at the action taken by my in-law before our wedding you will have doubt about what the aunty said)

What had happen before she was not in the picture, how can she make all those remarks infront of me?? Angry!!! my stupid hubby still stand there and refuse to move even thought he knew I wanted to go.

I wonder if that 'aunty' had treated her to-be daughter-in-law the way my in-laws have treated me, will her daughter-in-law still be as kind to behave like what she had dictated.

1) Who was the one who anyhow throw temper at me even before I was married into her family?

2) Who was the one who scold her son infront of everybody when we wanted to purchase our own house when her son was about to get married? (As a newly wed couple we just wanted to have our own place)

3) Who was the one who scolded her son just because he is financial tight during his preparation for marriage period, and told his family that he tentatively cannot afford to pay his younger brother 3rd semester university school fee? ( Not to mention that he didn't even ask for a cent from his family for his wedding preparation, and has paid for his younger brother earlier 2 semester school fee in full )

Not only those, my in-laws have not been kind to me during my wedding preparation.

First, they threaten not to attend the tea ceremony (Not as if I care!).

Second, they sold their house and quickly bought another cos they worried that their 2nd son (which is my hubby) will take money from them.

Third they even go to the extend of telling my hubby and me that I have to restrict to only $1000 on jewellery for the wedding (which is a chinese custom for the in-laws to buy for their new daughter-in-law).

These will always remain in my memory because of their unkindness, they successfully make my once in a life time marriage not a very happy one. Although my hubby have been trying very hard to make it a unique one for us; his parents just like to go against him and almost destory most of his effort.

Everytime I wanted to convince myself to let it go on the account of my hubby's sweetness towards me, but than they will sure find chance to detour my effort.

My hubby is also one of a kind, he know that I cannot 'tahan' his parents, but he will try ways and means to make me go and lose my temper; destory my mood and make my day a bad one. He is just not smart enough to try keep us a part and visit on a need-to basis, maybe after some years I can let go, instead of making it worse (to the extend that it affect our marriage).