Man and Wife...

The gal find it harder to communicate with her hubby... She got many fustrations, her hubby dun understand her and she think it is difficult for cos they never find time for each other nowadays. Her hubby is either busy surfing or too tired and wanna sleep.

She wanted very much to treasure her family life, but she think her hubby have not been taking his own initiative to help her in cleaning and everything want her to dictate. She is not sure cos she have high expectation or her hubby is simply too 'nua'.


Hubby keep complaining that gal is not good to him and did not compliment him... okie not that she is unaware now, but sometime it is so dificult for her to control her temper and wanna complaint more than compliment... :p Althought it is true that hubby can be very nice to her at times.

There are some feelings and memories that just won't go away easily... whenever she think of it she feel upset, angry, fustrated and unfair.

Upset cos of the moments she did not treasure when she is young, although she can't regret now.
Angry cos she feel that since hubby like that why shld she be bullied by that old witch previously.

Fustrated cos she feel that her hubby changed after delivery.

Unfair cos she hate her hubby for not planning for her and the new born.

Advice to ladies:
1) Please ensure that hubby is really good and caring; no matter before or after delivery (dun be taken in by sweet talk).
2) Please make sure you can take his family, cos it is not easy to manage ones feeling (and this will definitely affect marriage life).