Poor n Rich Relationship

I have done some soul searching, I ask myself am I that bad? Why she need to treat me this way. I compare over this period how I try to help and show up as hubby's wife (as a family member) while hubby younger brother girlfriend (B.G.F) dun even bother.

After so many things take place, I finally wake up from my naive idea of finding out where went wrong. Actually the answer is simply because I am not as rich as B.G.F. I cannot buy a car, provide a man and send him to university like what B.G.F family can for hubby's younger brother.

Haise.. how can like mother like son really take place in front of me? Hubby use to complaint and ask me not to compare him with my brother-in-law as their income level is different, he ask me not to be like my sis - want pick up a fight. See now all these happen via his mum towards me.

Treat me like shit when I treat them okie, jus cos I am not as rich does it mean I have to humble myself like the 50s to 60s poor daughter-in-law being bullied?? Who is the want who start it off to pick on me and my shortcomings?? (out to look for agruements right??)

Last time when I'm young people use to look down on my family cause we are very poor. My mum got to work as temp maid inorder to take care of us while earn an income. I tell myself next time when I grow up this situation have got to change.

I have always think that I make it since the day I start working. I behave myself no matter in school or at work just to ensure that I make my mum proud. Why should I let hubby's mum mis-treat me and look down on me now?