Man Ego

From http://dictionary.reference.com, I got the following definition:

1. The 'I' or self of any person; a person as thinking, feeling, and willing, and distinguishing itself from the selves of others and from objects of its thought.
2. Psychoanalysis. The part of the psychic apparatus that experiences and reacts to the outside world and thus mediates between the primitive drives of the need and the demands of the social and physical environment.

Today one of my friend (a.k.a z.f) msn me said that he is feeling lousy and asked me out for a drink. He feels lousy as one of the girls, he use to go out with seem to keep a distance from him. Why did the girl keep a distance from him? Well maybe she wanted to be more focus since now there is another guy who dated her out frequently. After all z.f. just date her out as friend and no further.

From what I know, z.f. is not lack of gal friends company (but not in relationship). I asked if he think the girl is the one. Is he prepared to commit and drop all other dates with his gal friends? If yes, then go for it. Yet he cannot answer my question…

Why did he feel lousy then? Is it cos he likes her or just his male ego? Yes, that’s the word – ‘EGO’ cos he feels that the gal has give priority to another guy, that’s why he feels lousy, he did not feel lousy cos he has fell for the girl and wanted to commit in a relationship.

That’s why people want commitment in relationship. This will give you a sense of security and priority over others right?